Wednesday, March 4, 2009

I Have To Love Me~Not You

The thing that I don't understand is why people care so much what others are wearing, thinking, doing with their personal lives. Everyday I wake up with a clean slate wondering, "God how can I be a better Brandy today"! That helps me evaluate my yesterday and increase my probability of success for tomorrow. Now don't get me wrong opinions are cool what people think is cool sometimes. But we cannot live others peoples ideas of us as fact. There are VERY few people who know me! So I feel like for anyone to create an opinion of me based off of minimal interactions is wrong. And I am not referring to someone who meets me one time and got a bad taste. I am referring to acquaintances who just don't really know me or what I am truly about. What I choose to do with my personal life is my decision and no one has to account for my actions but me...so don't be concerned PLEASE don't. Some people need constant approval I am not that person. Everyone has a time when they feel inadequate or insecure this is something I truly believe. But you truly show these traits when you talk about someone that you are particularly supposed to be cool with. It's a shame that I am typing this note before I get to talking about my Miami trip! So in conclusion if you have an issue with talking about your "friends" or people that you hang out with from time to time in a negative capacity...please ask God the following...

"God, grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the Courage to change the things I can; and the Wisdom to know the difference."

1 comment:

SWEET PEACH said...

SOOOO...I REALLY NEEDED TO HERE THAT, I SO AGREE...COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER! IN A PERFECT WORLD PEOPLE WOULD MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS, AND LET OTHER'S JUST "DO THEM", BUT U AND I BOTH KNOW THAT THIS WORLD IS FAR FROM THAT...BUT I GUESS, THAT'S WHY WE ARE WHO WE ARE: FEARLESS FEMMES WHO ARE BOLD ENOUGH TO BE THEMSELVES WITH NO EXCEPTIONS OR EXCUSES! KUDOS MISSBRANDY! MUAH*